Are you still trying to move on from a painful divorce or relationship?

Your mind knows it's over.

Your body hasn't recognize it yet.

you've done everything right from counseling to waiting for time to heal. but the pain is still there. Here's what finally releases it.

For women healing from divorce or a painful breakup

How To Finally Release The Pain Of Divorce And Move Forward Without Hurting When You Look Back.

Without waiting for time to heal. Without years of counselling that keeps you going in circles. Without self-help books that explain everything but change nothing.

Why you're still hurting

You did everything right.

So why does it still hurt?

You did everything right. So why does it still hurt?

If you've already tried counseling, self-help books, or waiting for time to heal and you're still here, this is why.

Talk therapy works on your mind. It helps you understand what happened, process the story, and find the meaning in it.

 

But your body doesn't speak in stories. It speaks in chest tightness. In 3am wake-ups. In food that won't go down. In a silent weight that sits on your chest even on the days when everything is fine.

 

Understanding what happened doesn't release what your body is holding. Those are two different systems in all of us, and for years, only one of them has been getting help.

 

The Heart Release Method works on the part that counseling can't reach. Not by going over what happened again. By also releasing what your nervous system is still carrying — so your body finally gets the message your mind figured out a long time ago.

You are not alone

I know exactly how you feel.Because I've been there too.

Not just a clinical therapist or energy healer. I'm a woman who lived through the same pain.

10 years ago, my husband betrayed me. Our marriage ended in divorce. I found myself suddenly alone in Singapore. Moving out, starting over, forcing myself to function when my entire world had collapsed.

I was a clinical therapist who knew exactly what to do. And none of it touched the pain I felt in my body.

I tried everything:

  • Counseling—Validated my decision but didn't heal the pain

  • Friends and family — Gave comfort but not relief

  • Time — Months passed, the pain stayed

  • Positive thinking — Couldn't think my way out of what I felt in my body

10 years ago, my husband betrayed me. Our marriage ended in divorce. I found myself suddenly alone in Singapore. Moving out, starting over, forcing myself to function when my entire world had collapsed.

I was a clinical therapist who knew exactly what to do. And none of it touched the pain I felt in my body.

I tried everything:

  • Counseling—Validated my decision but didn't heal the pain

  • Friends and family — Gave comfort but not relief

  • Time — Months passed, the pain stayed

  • Positive thinking — Couldn't think my way out of what I felt in my body

The turning point

Everything changed when I stopped trying to think my way out of it.

Everything changed when I stopped trying to think my way out of it.

The pain didn't leave when I understood it. It left when my body finally released it.

I discovered that the body holds on to emotions as energy. The grief, the betrayal, the loss, it wasn't just in my mind. It was stored in my body. Once I learned to release it, not talk about it, not think through it, but actually release it, everything started to change.

  • Anxiety calmed. Depression faded.

  • Started sleeping well and waking up energized.

  • Could recall the past without emotional pain.

  • Confidence in my life began to grow.

That discovery became the Heart Release Method™ and it's what I now use to help women just like you.

How Will The Heart Release Method™ Help You

Mind

Stop the mental spiral. Understand what happened without being trapped by it.

Body

Release the pain your body has been carrying, the tight chest, grief, the insomnia nights, and the tension and anxiety you can't explain.

Self

Find yourself again. Not who you were with them, but who you are now and who you're becoming.

Mind

Through a personal diagloue we will use cognitive restructuring techniques to break negative thought patterns that you have or might not be aware of and create new, empowering mental frameworks.

Body

Using a myriad of tools (such as pranic psychotherapy), a holistic no-touch, no-drug complementary therapy system to down-regulate your nervous system activate your body’s natural healing responses

Self

When your future is much more exciting than your past, that's when you have truly overcome your past. To do that, we will start by helping you rediscover your core values and build authentic confidence from within.

What does it looks like after working with Heart Release Method™?

Here are the results of ladies who worked with us.

*Names and personal details have been thoughtfully altered to honour their privacy and dignity.

Real client, Real Feedback

What Clients Say After working with Odie

Real clients, real feedback

What Clients Say After working with Odie

Pamelyn

Chest ache and Tormenting guilt Gone. Allowing her to continue her life.

“ I was given the space to just talk and be heard. There was no judgment, only understanding."

Some Of The Key Highlights Of This Case Study:

Before:

  • Was cheated on without realizing. And even worse was to discover she became the 3rd person in someone’s relationship.

  • Experienced heartbreak, anger, and guilt. 

  • Blaming herself every day. Which caused her to experience sleep difficulties and heavy chest aches all the time. 

  • Started to feel that she can’t be in a relationship again

What we did:

  • With the Heart Release Method, we regulate her nervous system and emotions. 

  • With a calm state, we helped her realized that she was also a victim in the situation

  • She discovered that self-love for her was forgiveness for herself and the situation that happened.

After:

  • The pain in the chest was gone

  • Felt peaceful and lighter

  • Able to sleep better at night

  • No longer think about the past and feel emotional.

Alicia

Insomia gone, able to recall the past without affecting her, start dating again

I thought moving on meant just forgetting. But I didn't realize my body was traumatized."

Some Of The Key Highlights Of This Case Study:

Before:

  • Walk in to her boyfriend with another woman.

  • Felt lost and ashamed.

  • Had no one to talk to, and depressive thoughts kept spiraling. End up using ChatGPT for chat to ease herself.

  • Thought that she just needed to "move on" with life until she started to lose sleep, affecting my work and life

What we did:

  • We started to to calm her nervous system with and discover that her body was holding the trauma that put her in a constant tense state

  • Learned to grieve for her relationship and event (not just the person)

After:

  • Woke up with relaxed muscles after the first session

  • Mind became peaceful—intrusive thoughts stopped

  • Sleeping and resting deeply again.

  • Started dating again without looking back

What does it looks like after working with Heart Release Method™?

Here are the results of ladies who worked with us.

*Names and personal details have been thoughtfully altered to honour their privacy and dignity.

Real clients, real feedback

What Clients Say After working with Odie

Pamelyn

Chest ache and Tormenting guilt Gone. Allowing her to continue her life.

“ I was given the space to just talk and be heard. There was no judgment, only understanding."

Some Of The Key Highlights Of This Case Study:

Before:

  • Was cheated on without realizing. And even worse was to discover she became the 3rd person in someone’s relationship.

  • Experienced heartbreak, anger, and guilt. 

  • Blaming herself every day. Which caused her to experience sleep difficulties and heavy chest aches all the time. 

  • Started to feel that she can’t be in a relationship again

What we did:

  • With the Heart Release Method, we regulate her nervous system and emotions. 

  • With a calm state, we helped her realized that she was also a victim in the situation

  • She discovered that self-love for her was forgiveness for herself and the situation that happened.

After:

  • The pain in the chest was gone

  • Felt peaceful and lighter

  • Able to sleep better at night

  • No longer think about the past and feel emotional.

Alicia

Insomia gone, able to recall the past without affecting her, start dating again

I thought moving on meant just forgetting. But I didn't realize my body was traumatized."

Some Of The Key Highlights Of This Case Study:

Before:

  • Walk in to her boyfriend with another woman.

  • Felt lost and ashamed.

  • Had no one to talk to, and depressive thoughts kept spiraling. End up using ChatGPT for chat to ease herself.

  • Thought that she just needed to "move on" with life until she started to lose sleep, affecting my work and life

What we did:

  • We started to to calm her nervous system with and discover that her body was holding the trauma that put her in a constant tense state

  • Learned to grieve for her relationship and event (not just the person)

After:

  • Woke up with relaxed muscles after the first session

  • Mind became peaceful—intrusive thoughts stopped

  • Sleeping and resting deeply again.

  • Started dating again without looking back

Is This For You?

Only you know which one describes where you are.

This is for you

✓ The relationship is over and your mind has decided are not going back

✓ You feel the pain in your body, and you know it's your roadblock.

✓ You've already tried counselling or other methods and something still hasn't shifted.

You're tired of talking about it and still feeling the pain.

✓ You're ready to do the work, not to be fixed, but to heal.

✓ You want to trust yourself and others again.

This is not for you

✗ You are still hoping to get back together, your goal is reconciliation, not healing

You haven't tried anything yet and aren't ready to commit to a structured program.

You are looking for a quick fix, something that works without any effort on your part.

You want others to be responsible for your emotions

You want to be fixed without doing the inner work.

✗ You are not ready to take charge of your life

Qualified. Experienced. Personally tested.

Over a decade in clinical settings before developing the Heart Release Method™.

After spending over a decade in clinical settings supporting patients through emotional crisis, I saw the same pattern again and again: medications dulled symptoms, but the true pain stayed buried.

Now I help women release betrayal trauma from their mind, body, and self so they can finally move forward without medication, without years of waiting for "time to heal.

Odie Ooi

Qualified. Experienced. Personally tested.

Over a decade in clinical settings before developing the Heart Release Method™.

After spending over a decade in clinical settings supporting patients through emotional crisis, I saw the same pattern again and again: medications dulled symptoms, but the true pain stayed buried.

Now I help women release betrayal trauma from their mind, body, and self so they can finally move forward without medication, without years of waiting for "time to heal.

Odie Ooi

Apply for Your Free HeartRelease Method™ Consultation

In Your Consultation, We Will Cover …

  • Your current situation and map the emotional pattern that keeping your pain stuck

  • The fastest way to heal from your pain and get you where you want.

  • Get a custom release plan tailored to your nervous system and timeline

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